No human are perfect but each of us had been given a sanity to tell the different between good or bad. It's up to his/her own to think wisely and choose who are the friends in your circles unless you are the only one on this planet. Make sure everybody in your boat is rowing and not drilling holes when you're not looking.
I started this blog for fun to share my baking, cooking and some DIY craft since February 2011 but eventually it has became one of my hobbies. I had met some very nice and friendly bloggers/readers and also some annoying sneaky people too.

While this blog has not brought me the riches and fame, it has brought me closer to a group of people who are now my very good friends and buddies. Thank you so much to all my lovely friends who had been supporting me since 2011. And all these years I had met several bloggers from Malaysia, Australia, Singapore and Middle East. Recently in March, I met up with Sona, my buddy from Middle East. A happy go lucky lady with great sense of humor.

Malaysia favorite dessert sagu pudding with coconut milk and palm sugar.
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| My signature fruit cocktail. Canned pineapple, longan and calamansi juice. |
Say hello to mango season.......
Home cooked meal are generally considered more healthy than fast food. Eating healthy maybe ticket for a slimmer waistline.
Fried fish village style.

Amelia's sweet sour mango chutney
Ingredients
1 large onion - cut wedges
1/2 inch ginger - cut julienne
2 cloves garlic - slice thinly
1 red chilli - slice thinly
1 green chilli - slice thinly
1 stick cinnamon
3 cloves
1 star anise
5 cardomon seeds
3 tbsp curry powder
1 cup water
1 tbsp toasted grated coconut
1 tbsp dried prawns - pound till fine
3 to 4 tbsp brown sugar or castor sugar
2 tbsp cooking oil
Salt and pepper to taste
2 half ripe mangoes - slice into 4 pieces.
( Best to cook together with mango skin)
1/ Toast the grated coconut and keep aside.
2/ Mix the water and curry powder into paste.
3/ Heat of the oil, saute the onion, garlic, cinnamon stick, star anise, cloves for several minutes until slightly brown.
4/ Add the dried prawns, ginger and stir fry for few minutes.
If too thick add a bit more water. Let it boil for 5 minutes then add the toasted coconut. Garnish with spring onion.
Amelia

Hello Amelia, this is such a beautiful post! Happy Anniversary!Loved seeing your pictures...so lovely and radiant as a young bride! And it was wonderful reading these details.:)
ReplyDeleteFood on your table looks so delicious! Lucky friends getting to taste such a meal!That's the way we usually fry fish too. Village style!! But this chutney I have to try. There are more ingredients in yours. Mangoes will soon flood our markets. The ones on our trees (mine and in the neighbourhood) are not fully matured.
Enjoy your weekend. Happy Anniversary once again and my love to your family.
Hi Kanak, thank you so much for your compliments and lovely wishes. I appreciated it very much. Met Sona in cyber world sometimes back and we will joking if we ever meet will we tear down the kitchen. hahaha.....She is a very nice lady.
DeleteIts mango season in Malaysia but due to the current heat wave, the mangoes ripe very fast. So can only keep for a day or two only. This chutney is very appetizing, you balance the sweet sour taste to your liking. I practically finished 3/4 of it all by myself. hahahaha......
Looking forward to see your mango trees.
Have a nice week ahead,regards. With lots of love and hugs to you.
Amelia
Hi Amelia:)
ReplyDeleteIt's was so wonderful to "see" your post in my sidebar. I just had to hurry over here to see what's cooking! Little did I know that I would not only be invited to dinner, virtually of course, but also to share in your glorious wedding anniversary. You were a gorgeous bride!!! (hubby looks quite suave also:) Happy Anniversay Amelia!!!
I think it's wonderful how you and your husband met and that you saved each and every trinket. One of my favorite novels is titled 84 Charing Cross Road. It's about two people who correspond for 20 years from New York to London. They never marry though. It's a charming story and the book is not very long:)
Now, as for those mangos. Don't beat me with a wet noodle but, I just can't warm up to mangoes. I have tried them a few times and it just doesn't work for me. Perhps I have chosen the wrong ones. I will have to try them again and keep your tips in mind.
Your spread of food is amazing and your guests most thoughtful. The online world sure has brought so many people together. Too bad governments can't do the same.
Thank you so much for sharing, Amelia...I actually posted a Maylasian recipe on my blog today. It's called Sambal Goreng Kembango. I hope you get a chance to see it:)
Hi Louise, thank you so much for your lovely compliments and warm wishes. I appreciate it very much. Blogging no doubt it's not easy but it did bring us lots of joy and meet friends from all 4 continents. Today I got lots of wonderful friends from all over world including you. And there are so many people I wish to meet and shake hands. Hopefully and keep our fingers cross.
DeleteI started corresponding with my hubby when I was 15 years old and we didn't meet until I finish schooling. It was fun thou exchanging letters, cards and bookmarks but did not expect that we end up tying the knot. Yes, I saved most of the items that we gave each others but did throw some away when we moved to apartment.
I will check out the book "84 Charing Cross Road". Thanks for the recommendation.
There are many types of mangoes. Some are sour and tasteless, some are so fragrant and sweet. Those sour and tasteless mango usually we pickle it or use it to cook chutney. This batch of mangoes that I brought its not very sweet, a bit sour. From the outer skin you can't tell if the mango is sweet or sour. So if you want to try again, don't buy too many.
Will drop by your blog tonight. With lots of love and hugs to you.
Have a nice week ahead,regards.
Amelia
Αγαπητή μου Αμέλια, τι υπέροχο ζευγάρι είστε!!! Όμορφοι και οι τέσσερις!!!
ReplyDeleteΣας εύχομαι μέσα από την καρδιά μου, να είστε υγιείς, αγαπημένοι κι ευτυχισμένοι!
Τα φαγητά σας υπέροχα!
Λατρεύω τα ψάρια! Είχα την ευτυχία πριν από πολλά χρόνια, να δοκιμάσω γεύσεις στην Σιγκαπούρη, την Ταυλάνδη και Μαλαισία! Αξέχαστο ταξίδι!
Σας στέλνω μια μεγάλη αγκαλιά και τις πιο εγκάρδιες ευχές μου!
Hi my dear Magda, thank you for your lovely and sweet compliments and warm wishes. I appreciate it very much.
DeleteYou are also one of my longest blog friends since I started blogging. Hopefully one of this day we may be able to meet up and shake hands. ))
Thanks again for your kind support, no problem using Greek language cos we still have google translation. :))
With lots of love and hugs to you. Have a nice week ahead, regards.
Amelia
Hello Amelia! What a heart warming post. And what a delicious spread you prepared for Sona and family! Sedapnya! Happy Anniversary! Love your story on how you met your hubby. Those old photos are so cute. You and your hubby made a very beautiful/handsome couple. Here's wishing you both many more anniversaries and happy and loving years to come!
ReplyDeleteHi Phong Hong, thank you so much for your sweet compliments and warm wishes. I appreciate it very much. Hahaha..... didn't expect to met my hubby and end up settle down cos those days I had a long string of penpals and I met 4 others guys too. But the others after met we bye bye and after married no more contact anyone of them.
DeleteHave a wonderful week ahead,regards. With lots of love and hugs to you.
Amelia
Hello Amelia, so happy to meet again after all these years and when I learnt you ada blog, I cepat2 click on the link. Amboiiii cantiknye.. you the blushing bride and your vely vely handsome husband! Amelia, you were so beautiful as a new bride and you never changed much. Happy anniversary my dear, and may you and husband celebrate lots and lots more anniversaries. And really salute you keeping all those cards from long ago. Those are precious. You still the ever sweet smiling friend I used to know a long time ago.
ReplyDeleteGasp!! the food you cook.. OMG! where did you.. how did you.??. I am speechless. LOL! Your children look absolutely wonderful. and your boy, I am not surprise that he is big for his age.. you see lah how good mak dia masak...hehe.
Suka your write-up about the mangoes, and especially about rotten mangoes which is very true....Keep up the good work. Suka the songs.. so sweet.. never tired of listening.
hugs to you.
Hi Jojo my dear friend, so good to see you again. Lucky ada some KPC friends, if not we won't be able to see each other again. After you went oversea somehow we lost contact due to busy with work and children. But anyway so good to see you again, I thought you marry Mat Salleh don't want come back anymore. :))
DeleteThank you so much for your sweet and lovely compliments and warm wishes. I appreciate it very much. Hahaha.... my hubby may not be the best or romantic but those days we buy cards, bookmarks, cute gift cards like no tomorrow. Went post office until everyone also know me Ah Moi arh..... hantar surat kah. hahahaha....
During our younger days we fight like Tom and Jerry too, hahaha.... now more matured so we give and take, tutup satu mata.
I always enjoy cooking and baking. Will try out any new recipes as and when I have the time. And we seldom eat out, I cook all the 3 meals everyday. Once a while only we eat out or tapau.
Regards the rotten mangoes it's very true, I am not sarcastic or simply write. Fed up lah, my back kena tikam until a lot of lobang already..
Thanks for dropping by and glad you enjoyed my posting. See you again.
With lots of love and hugs to you. Have a lovely week ahead,regards.
Amelia
Omg!! Thats a lot of food. I simply love the sambal belacan and any dish which features mangoes. Loved.
ReplyDeleteHi Nava, thank you for your compliments and kind words.
DeleteHave a nice week ahead,regards.
Amelia
Hi Amelia
ReplyDeletewow, just by looking at the header I know I am going to read a wonderful post..the header pic alone made me salivate all the way haha.. What a wonderful array of food and so kind of inviting your blogger friends having a lovely meal home-cooked by you. Will beat eating in any restaurant any time.
Gosh must try cook that mango chutney one of these days. And talking about rotten mangoes akin to fake friends who stab you in back. They will say nice things in front but as soon as we turn our back, they start gossiping, mocking, and make up story to another person. Very sad indeed. Oh well, I guess there are people like that. But as long as we remain true to ourselves, best we just ignore and avoid such people.
OMG, you were such a beautiful bride and it is no wonder your handsome husband proposed almost immediately after your first date...hahaha.. And no guessing where your kids got their good looks from. Happy anniversary and wishing you another lifetime of love and just enough challenges to make the marriage exciting. haha.. God bless ..
love and hugs to you.. Hope to meet you one of these days.
Angie
Hi Angie, thank you very much for your warm wishes and sweet compliments. Next time you come to JB, I will cook for you. Sona is a very nice blog buddy whom I meet few years back. Glad that she and her family enjoyed my cooking.
DeleteThis mango chutney is delicious to go with white rice. Its sweet, sour and spicy, very appetizing dish.
Yes, I just hate those who gossips and like to mock at people. Especially after helping some friends, they turn around and kick me back. Very ungrateful and wicked. These people sure will get their karma sooner or later. There are always such people who enjoy doing psycho thing. Glad that I met more good people than those wicked people.
Thanks again for your kind and warm wishes. We went thru thick and thin for the past 32 years and during our younger days we fight like Tom & Jerry too. hahaha... Now more matured we don't fight anymore.
With lots of love and hugs to you. Have a nice week ahead,regards.
Amelia
Congratulations on your anniversary. I would really like to get to your part of the world to meet you and sample some of your delicious meals. I enjoyed learning how you met your husband.
ReplyDeleteHi George, thank you for your warm wishes and compliments. Looking forward to meet you and Mrs one of this day either in Malaysia or in your country.
DeleteHave a great week ahead,regards.
Amelia
A happy family, Amelia. Congratulations! Those family pictures are precious, I love esp. the one you holding your daughter. So beautiful!
ReplyDeleteHi Angie, thank you for your sweet compliments and warm wishes. Appreciate it very much.
DeleteHave a nice week ahead,regards.
Amelia
happy mother's day dear... your posts are always very informative and elaborate... and those wonderful pictures ... stay happy like this always.. lots of love..
ReplyDeleteHi Krishna, thank your for your sweet compliment and warm wishes. Appreciate it very much. Glad to know that you enjoyed my postings.
DeleteHave a nice week ahead, regards.
Amelia
Hi Amelia Happy Mother's day to you :) thank you for the wishes. The pictures of you and family are beautiful. The feast looks superb. The mangoes look delicious :) talk to you soon Akheela
ReplyDeleteHi Akheela, thank you for your warm wishes and compliments. We keep in touch again.
DeleteHave a great week ahead,regards.
Amelia
Hi Amelia,
ReplyDeleteThat's a wonderful spread you prepared for your friend..
Love all the recipes here ..the fish looks tempting.. Happy anniversary to you ..stay blessed always..we too are enjoying Mango season here..
Hi Gloria, thank you for your sweet compliments and warm wishes. Yes, its mango season now,enjoy while it last. :))
DeleteHave a great week ahead,regards.
Amelia
Amelia, I like mangoes too. I used to hv a big elephant trunk mango tree when I was little but never appreciate it until my family moved out n have to buy them instead.
ReplyDeleteGood memories to reminisce and share with us ur wedding photos.
Are you peranakan?
Hi Jenn, thank you for dropping by with your kind words. We are not peranakan, we are teochew dialet.
DeleteMe too love mango, will eat almost everyday until off season.
Have a nice week ahead,regards.
Amelia
Happy Anniversary! And thanks for telling us about it -- 32 years is certainly something to celebrate. Love mangoes, so I'm really loving this post. Thanks!
ReplyDeleteHi johm, thank you for your compliments and warm wishes. Yes, 32 years it not easy to go thru, we went thru thick and thin with lots of fight too. LOL
DeleteHave a great week ahead,regards.
Amelia
Hello Amelia.. its been a while since i last leave a comment here..
ReplyDeleteDrop by 2-3 months ago, looking for whats cooking in the kitchen.. but noted most of the archive post gone and wonder what happen.. hope is all save somewhere..
Happy Anniversary to you and thanks for sharing the lovely photos.. Ah.. Mr very suave like our friend in Toronto.. haha..
Mango Chutney sound interesting.. Ok if my mango tree bear fruits I will make this.. (the tree only bear fruits for 2 times over the 5 years)..
Looking forward to your next post!
Hi Norick, thank you for dropping by with your warm wishes.Appreciate it very much.
DeleteMy postings are all in my blog, nothing missing.
This mango dish is very appetizing, worth to give it a try if your like sweet, sour and spicy.
Have a great week ahead,regards.
Amelia
Looking at all the food really makes me hungry. I love mango, especially the sweet ones.
ReplyDeleteHi Nancy, thank you for dropping by with your kind words.
DeleteHave a nice week ahead,regards.
Amelia
When you said mango is a reflection of our attitude , I couldn't agree more *sigh*
ReplyDeleteAnyway , what a gorgeous spread for your friend Sona and her family , from the look of it , it must be out of this world delicious ! From the simple fried fresh fish , ( my fave ) sambal and to mango chutney , I can't help but drool :D
Happy Anniversary !!!! Your hubby is so lucky to have you !
Hi Anne, thank you for your sweet compliments and warm wishes.
DeleteIts very true, mango is like the reflection of our attitude. I had met a few hypocrite friends in FB and blog, they sweet talk in front but turn around gossips and mocked about me. Very sad indeed to have suck people in our circle.
Sona and family enjoyed the nasi lemak, its their first experience to be invited to a Chinese house for dinner. Looking forward to meet you too. :))
Have a nice week ahead,regards.
Amelia
Olá, tudo bem?
ReplyDeleteGosto de manga, aqui comemos como salada e no suco. Uma bela comparação, o ser humano as vezes nos decepcionam, mas encontramos mais pessoas boas e amigas do que ruins.
O blog também me trouxe muitas coisas boas e a melhor de todas foi as amizades. Quando encontramos as amigas blogueiras parece que nos conhecemos a muitos anos.
Parabéns pelo aniversario de casamento, desejo muitas felicidades e muitas alegrias. Tu guardou tudo! Que legal.
Bjos,
Tenha uma ótima semana.
Hi Anaja, good to see you again. I'm fine, thank you.
DeleteThank you for your sweet compliments and warm wishes. Glad to know that you enjoyed my postings.
Agree with you, we meet more nice people than the wicked one. There are all kind of people around us, so I don't bother those gossipers so much unless they went overboard then I will take action.
But its really nice to meet friends from the 4 continents, glad to meet a wonderful friends like you too. Looking forward to meet you too.
Have a nice week ahead,regards. With hugs and love to you.
Amelia
I don't know what happened but I missed your blog post...so was late to catch some of the photos:( but I really love your sharing with us your love story...so special and how you managed to keep all the memories in a diary is so precious too! Happy anniversary and many blessings in your journey together:)
ReplyDeleteHi Annie, thank you for your warm wishes. Glad that you enjoyed my memories. :))
DeleteHave a nice weekend, regards.
Amelia
Great blog, Amelia; fine, healthy cooking. I love mangoes and have many different kinds in my garden. Thank you for the mango chutney recipe. as soon as I get mangoes to harvest I will try it.
ReplyDeleteHi Titania, thank you for dropping by with your kind words and compliments. Its great to have your own mango plant in your garden, you can have abundance of harvest during the mango season.
DeleteThis chutney is a great appetizer.
Have a great weekend, regards.
Amelia
Oh Amelia...another post packed with delicious dishes...I have never had mango prepared this way...looks so intriguing at the same time tasty...I would love to one day have the opportunity to try.
ReplyDeleteHave a fabulous week :)
Hi Juliana, thank you for your kind words and compliments. This mango dish is a very appetizing dish, I'm sure you will love it.
DeleteHave a wonderful weekend, regards.
Amelia
Hi Amelia,
ReplyDeleteJust to wish you a happy belated wedding anniversary and many more years on continued marital bliss.Yeah before the Internet days besides writing letters and telephones seeing in person your partner is the antidote and soothes the yearning for each other absence.
Fr.Jacko.
Hi Jacko, thank you for your kind words and warm wishes. Ya lah,those days we no internet and phone calls are expensive too so we write letters every week or sent greeting cards. And we don't get to meet so often too. LOL
DeleteHave a great weekend, regards.
Amelia
Hi Amelia,
ReplyDeleteI could feel the blissful and sweet-loving sharing of this lovely post. Wishing you a happy belated wedding anniversary.
Yummy! What a wonderful spread you had prepared, great host. Hope we could meet too.
I love mangoes ... but seldom use in bakes as prefer eating the fruit. But now you've tempted me to make this yummy spicy mango chutney ... thanks for sharing.
Hi Karen, thank you for your warm wishes and compliments.
DeleteMe too love fresh mango. But this mango chutney the sweet, sour, spicy taste is awesome. Its a very appetizing dish.
Have a great weekend, regards.
Amelia
That looks so delicious :)
ReplyDeleteHi Ti, thank you for your compliments.
DeleteHave a great week ahead,regards.
Amelia
Wow, so glad I made it just in time to wish you a Happy Anniversary! Thanks for coming by & leaving your strings of lovely comments in my posts! I'm a fan of mangoes too, & love making desserts with them :D
ReplyDeleteHi Shirley, thank you for your compliments and warm wishes and also your comments. :)) Me, love mango very much regardless eat fresh or cook savory dishes.
DeleteHave a fabulous week ahead,regards.
Amelia
hai Amelia,
ReplyDeleteJust to wish u a Happy 32nd belated weeding Anniversary!
u marriage in 1984, i'm new born bby on that time
ur weeding anniversary same my age *negeee
Hi Zie, thank you for your warm wishes. You still young, enjoyed your life and spent time with your kids. Kids grow very fast. :))
DeleteHave a great week ahead,regards.
Amelia